My Favorites: Great Stuff I’ve Found Recently

My monthly  “My Favorites”    routine includes posting links to great content I ran across, to encourage you to check them out if they sound interesting. Enjoy! 

Let’s start with a wonderful story on the  “Half empty or Half full?”question; it is such a great story so I have it here full length – and you don’t have to take a decision whether to click a link or not :-):

A Psychologist walked around a room while teaching Stress Management to an audience.
As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the “Half empty or Half full” question.
Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired:
“How heavy is this glass of water?”
Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.
She replied, “The absolute weight doesn’t matter.
It depends on how long I hold it.
If I hold it for a minute,
it’s not a problem.
If I hold it for an hour,
I’ll have an ache in my arm.
If I hold it for a day,
my arm will feel numb and paralyzed.
In each case,
the weight of the glass doesn’t change,
But
The longer I hold it,
the heavier it becomes.
She continued,
“The Stresses and Worries in Life , are like that Glass of Water…
Think about them for a while and nothing happens.
Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt.
And
If you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed –
incapable of doing anything….!!!”
Remember to put the Glass Down

 

 
My Advice for Starting a Business
Get started, my friends! You will love it.
  

Getting started, again

We started off the year with high hopes. We were going to find love! Start new jobs! Let go of old hurts! Now it’s time to do an evaluation.

Are you any closer? Do you have the sort of realistic conversations with yourself that are going to stop you from repeating the same old, same old? Or are you still back in 2013? Here are some ideas to help you get back on track.

  

How to be a time warrior

Choosing to be a time warrior gives you ways to leave linear modes of time management behind. It frees you up to enjoy going non-linear.

  

 

What Are You Hiding?

5 Actions for Creating Openness; by Mick Ukleja

 

 

Smile, breathe, and go slowly!

Dieter Langenecker
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Empty your cup

A university professor visited Zen master Nan-in to inquire about Zen. But instead of listening to the master, the scholar kept going on and on about his own ideas.

After listening for some time, Nan-in served tea. He poured his visitor’s cup full, and kept on pouring. The tea flowed over the sides of the cup, filled the saucer, spilled onto the man’s pants and onto the floor.

“Don’t you see the cup is full?” the professor exploded. “You can’t get any more in!”

“Just so,” replied Nan-in calmly. “And like this cup, you are full of your own ideas and opinions. How can I show you Zen unless you first empty your cup?”

 

Emptying the cup means making room for Great Questions. It means being open, reconditioning ourselves, so that we can accept, for the time being, not knowing. Out of that a greater knowing will dawn.

And this applies especially for a clear-cut answer to “What is the meaning and purpose of my life?”. The answer to Great Questions like this can only emerge from the journey of living. And we can only arrive at it by the road of not-knowing – or maybe we should say, not-yet-knowing.

Sometimes life doesn’t provide the answers right away. But asking the right questions is the first step.

Your take?

Smile, breathe and go slowly!
Dieter Langenecker
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