HOW DID HE KNOW?

This is a guest post by my dear friend Linda Jane McLean. Enjoy!

THE POSTCARD

“I write my memoirs and remember the night in Feb. 45, when after a night skirmish, I was digging in when Hugh came to my position saying: ‘The Colonel has lost the battalion and wanted someone to go and look.’ I was frozen with fear; to go out in the dark woodlands seemed a certain equation to be shot at by both sides, as I put it. He was sensitive to my abject fear and said: “Jim White will do it.”

How did he know?

Lt. White was carried in later after stepping on a schu mine. No one said anything, but I was rather shamed.

A fine man.”

What is it about this piece that inspires you and helps sustain you as a leader?

These words seem few and inadequate to encapsulate what I understand about leadership, and which affect my practice to this day. I had only known the story from Hugh’s perspective, so this was an interesting insight.

As a Major, Hugh had just returned from 7 days R&R in February 1945, to discover that his entire Company had been decimated. Of the three platoons who had joked with him just a few days before, a mere handful had survived the battle in the Reichswald. His loss was agony: from El Alamein to the D-Day landings and across Europe, he had marched, fought, lived and laughed with these men.   Now, the war was nearing its end. Reinforcements had been sent; the task of rapidly identifying strengths and weaknesses stared back at him in the influx of new and unknown faces.

Which of his new recruits could be tasked with going into the woods at night to look for a battalion, with whom radio contact had been lost?  He decided to ask his newly arrived Lieutenant – a Platoon Commander, to ascertain their position.

Excellent enemy snipers at very close range made everybody nervous and trigger-happy. Tension and vulnerability were all around and it was his Lieutenant’s first battle. He was astonished that Hugh had the courage to loom out of the night to ask him the question – he could have been shot by his own side.

Hugh, meanwhile, gauged the Platoon Commander’s reaction carefully, and noted the open terror, knowing that fear was the most destructive of enemies. He understood the pointlessness of issuing an order in these circumstances: he must identify another soldier.  Years in the theatre of war taught him:

1. Patience – boys become men: but not all arrive at the front line as men.

2. Tolerance – everyone has weaknesses, but most learn: some the hard way.

3. Watchfulness – prior to the critical situation, note reactions.

4.  Examine all possibilities, and refuse to be daunted.

5.  Value your troops, and they will value you.

6. Courage. like fear, can be infectious. If you want courageous followers, you must set the standard.

© Linda Jane McLean

LindaLinda worked in Renal Medicine and Intensive Care, before studying Orthopaedics and becoming a Ward Sister.

She became interested in empowerment while working with a severely disabled gentleman who displayed extraordinary courage and tenacity.

She studied Clinical Leadership at Glasgow University, and was a Consultant to Strathclyde Police.

Linda’s LINKEDIN PROFILE; her blog can be found HERE

 

My Favorites: Great Stuff I’ve Found Recently

My monthly      “Great Stuff”    routine includes posting links to great content I ran across, to encourage you check them out if they sound interesting. Enjoy! 

 

I came across some really profound stuff: about Nelson Mandela, an 18 years old on a career path less traveled, 35 pictures that proof that the world isn’t such a bad place, things every (wo)man should own, and Activating the Life Purpose That’s Right Under Your Nose – so turn off any distractions and enjoy!

 

Boyd Varty: What I learned from Nelson Mandela
Simply a “must see”:

Letter to an 18-year-old on the Career Path Less Traveled 
If you don’t want to be the typical Everyday Joe, in a 9-to-5 office job, don’t go the route that everybody else takes

35 pictures that proof that the world isn’t such a bad place
Everything is NOT terrible. 

Things every (wo)man should own
Clear, short, precise – typical Leo Babauta

Activating the Life Purpose That’s Right Under Your Nose 
“Our obligation is to give meaning to life, and in doing so to overcome the passive, indifferent life.” ~Elie Wiesel 

Smile, breathe, and go slowly!

Dieter Langenecker
Dieter

 

PS: If you want to comment, ask a question or inquire how personal mentoring can be of help to you visit www.langenecker.com/lifementoring.html

 

The yardstick of success is not measured by fame and wealth;
it is measured by your level of understanding of
who you are, why you are here
and where are you going from here. (Tulshi Sen)

 

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Today, some years ago:
Philosopher Socrates sentenced to death (399 A.D.), Galileo Galilei is born in Pisa, Italy (1564), and 2012 DA14, an asteroid with a 50m diameter, comes within 27,700km from Earth (2013); time – and comets – rush by.

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Fill in whatever info you’re comfortable sharing and by next Wednesday I’ll get back to you and let you know if you’ve won.

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So there is some more good news: for the runner-ups  there will be four fully-paid scholarships for  1 month of LifeMentoring sessions!

And if now some negative mind chatter kicks in, like “There are probably thousands of people on this list. Why would he choose you? What would make you interesting enough to have him want to work with you? Don’t make a fool out of yourself, just hit delete and move on.” –  silence it. (If you need some support on this read the article http://www.sensophy.com/challenge-your-assumptions/ by Iris, from whom I took the idea at the first place).

Is there any condition?  Yes, actually there are five of them:

1. You are ready to finally let go of all excuses and stories that are holding you back and (re-)discover and courageously live your life’s purpose.

2. You are ready to invest time into yourself: at least ½  hour a week into the mentoring session(s) and any time you need for reflection and practical application.

3. You follow the plan you choose to follow, as faithfully as you can.  There will be times you fail, but you promise to do your very best.

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With best regards,

Dieter Langenecker

Dieter

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