Change occurs GRADUALLY, not all at once!

One of the most pervasive beliefs I see that stops people from manifesting their purpose and their goals is that change and inspiration is this huge quantum moment that happens all at once. 

It’s just not true.Change happens one day, one moment, one step at a time. It’s 10,000 small steps that add up to a big leap.

The good news is that all you need to do right now is take one step. The  tough news is that there’s a BUNCH of these small steps that you need to take to make the transformation you are dreaming about a reality.

Sorry.

It’s not the best news in the world, but what’s rad is that all you need to  do is focus on the next step. Not the third step, or the 100th step, just the next one.

Life is all about just putting one foot in front of the other and taking that step. That step is what it’s all about it. The NEXT one. I’m all about just doing the next step.

Sure, I plan and plan. But I only ACT one step at a time. It’s SO easy to get caught up in the hypothetical outcomes that we never actually take  action. I truly believe that inspiration doesn’t just come; it usually comes as a byproduct of taking action. It’s in the action that we learn and change course. It’s in the action that we reality test and see which strategies work and which don’t. It’s in the action that we become more, we learn, we grow and we eventually make our dreams come true.

So many people think that this will happen all at once on one magical day. That’s not how it works. It’s a process, and sometimes a slow one at that, because The Divine needs to prepare us to live our best lives. And that sometimes means trials, setbacks and suffering – not as punishment, but as preparation for truly being able to give our gifts to the world.

The BIG goal happens one step, one moment and one action at a time.

What’s your next step?

 

With kind regards,
Dieter Langenecker

Tomorrow’s Leader

Some years ago I came across an excellent and unusual book by Prof.Srikumar Rao called “Are YOU Ready to Succeed? Unconventional Strategies for Achieving Personal Mastery in Business and Life”; unusual, because it focuses on self-discovery rather than traditional business skills.

Today I want to give you a glimpse of his philosophy with an excerpt from an article he wrote; it is called “Tomorrow’s Leader”:

 
Srikumar S. Rao conceived Creativity and Personal Mastery, a pioneering course that is one of the highest-rated at Columbia Business School and London Business School. It is believed to be the only course at a top business school to have its own alumni association. He also created the Advanced Leadership Clinic, a unique and intensive leadership workshop offered to senior executives. More information on his work is available at www.areyoureadytosucceed.com.


Business is changing. Although this is hardly an original observation, what few realize is the extent to which and speed with which it is doing so.
  
What are some of the more important factors driving this change? First, the way in which business is transacted is changing. Technology-the Internet, new methods of communication, faster and more customized manufacturing, and so on-is a principal cause, but not the only one. Second, the breadth of the playing field in which business takes place is increasing enormously. A tiny bookstore in a suburb of Manila can take a sale away from Borders. Third, consumer expectations are changing, and consumers are becoming much more demanding. At the same time, employees and their expectations are changing. They expect more from work and want to contribute in different ways. Another important factor is that interdependence is becoming greater and much more complex. A U.S. company may have a research laboratory in Bangalore developing prototype products for Australia. The interdependence goes beyond business relationships to encompass governments, nongovernmental organizations, and other parts of the citizen sector. Last, the pace of change has accelerated so rapidly that size is no longer a protective buffer. Multibillion dollar companies often see their competitive positions erode within months.
  
Leadership then is a hot area for management thinkers and writers, for good reason: in this new world, our organizations-commercial, not-for-profit, and government-need leaders with different skills and a richer set of them to lead us into the future.
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Let me explain.
  
I have taught a course called Creativity and Personal Mastery for many years at schools such as Columbia Business School and the London Business School, and to executives in other forums. It is a deeply introspective course, and those who take it spend enormous amounts of time contemplating the workplace and how they would like it to be. They think about leadership styles they would like to develop and what they would like to see in their hierarchical superiors.
  
Hundreds of students and executives have shared their opinions with me. Are there variations? Sure there are. But the composite picture that emerges is startlingly clear and quite unambiguous. The successful leader of the future is one who can create systems that bring into being organizations that command a deep allegiance from employees, and from others who interact with the organizations, such as customers and suppliers.
  
In discussing this new type of leader, I speak mainly from the perspective of for-profit business organizations, but intuitive changes can readily be made to adjust to the needs of other types of organizations. Also, much of what I reveal concerns organizational culture and values.
  
So what is the task that lies ahead for the successful leader of the future?
  
Set an Inspiring Mission
  
While this may not seem relevant to leadership, mission is actually crucial. The leader sets the organization’s mission, and if this mission does not resonate deeply, then those being led will merely go through the motions. Many of our present organizations have exemplary missions that exist primarily in framed statements in the boardroom and in company brochures. This does not work. The mission should resonate and it should be crystal clear to all that it is indeed the guiding principle of the organization.
  
Nobody gets passionate about maximizing shareholder value, or gaining market share, or reaching market dominance, or achieving set revenues or earnings increases. In fact, a leader who puts any of these, or similar, metrics forward immediately and silently loses much support.
  
Here is what I have learned: the purpose of a business is to ensure that every person who comes into contact with it reaches his or her highest potential. This includes employees, customers, suppliers, lenders, shareholders, and the community at large.
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A leader trying to formulate his or her company’s mission in line with this purpose will find an unbelievable degree of engagement at all levels.
  
Pursue Profits After Mission
  
Profits are the lifeblood of a successful business. None of the people who have shared their thoughts with me have anything against healthy profits. What they are against is a primary focus on profit.
  
Viktor Frankl postulated that success and happiness cannot be pursued-they must ensue as unintended side effects of one’s personal dedication to a course greater than oneself.
  
In like fashion, profits are the inevitable by-product of a business successfully run in accordance with a mission and purpose as described earlier.

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The successful leader of the future, then, sets an inspiring mission, pursues profits secondarily to that mission, and makes sure that compensation is fair at all levels. This leader eliminates demotivating obstacles and is of service to his or her followers, not self-aggrandizing, and demonstrates a commitment to community, learning, and justice.
  
And this, my students tell me, is the sort of leader for whom they will gladly lay their heads on the rail.

(From The Organization of the Future 2. Copyright © 2009 by Leader to Leader Institute- This material is reproduced with permission of John Wiley & Sons, Inc.)

So what is your take? Send me an email and let me know your opinion!

And if you are in the process of transforming your life feel free to schedule an online conversation with me via meetme.so/dieterlangenecker anytime! 

The #1 Reason Leadership Development Fails

Over the years, I’ve observed just about every type of leadership development program on the planet. And the sad thing is, most of them don’t even come close to accomplishing what they were designed to do – build better leaders. In today’s column I’ll share the #1 reason leadership development programs fail, and give you 20 things to focus on to ensure yours doesn’t become another casualty.
According to the American Society of Training and Development, U.S. businesses spend more than $170 Billion dollars on leadership-based curriculum, with the majority of those dollars being spent on “LeadershipTraining.” Here’s the thing – when it comes to leadership, the training industry has been broken for years. You don’t train leaders you develop them – a subtle yet important distinction lost on many. Leadership training is alive and well, but it should have died long, long ago.
This may be heresy to some – but training is indeed the #1 reason leadership development fails. While training is often accepted as productive, it rarely is. The terms training and development have somehow become synonymous when they are clearly not. This is more than an argument based on semantics – it’s painfully real. I’ll likely take some heat over my allegations against the training industry’s negative impact on the development of leaders, and while this column works off some broad generalizations, in my experience having worked with literally thousands of leaders, they are largely true.
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