HOW DID HE KNOW?

This is a guest post by my dear friend Linda Jane McLean. Enjoy!

THE POSTCARD

“I write my memoirs and remember the night in Feb. 45, when after a night skirmish, I was digging in when Hugh came to my position saying: ‘The Colonel has lost the battalion and wanted someone to go and look.’ I was frozen with fear; to go out in the dark woodlands seemed a certain equation to be shot at by both sides, as I put it. He was sensitive to my abject fear and said: “Jim White will do it.”

How did he know?

Lt. White was carried in later after stepping on a schu mine. No one said anything, but I was rather shamed.

A fine man.”

What is it about this piece that inspires you and helps sustain you as a leader?

These words seem few and inadequate to encapsulate what I understand about leadership, and which affect my practice to this day. I had only known the story from Hugh’s perspective, so this was an interesting insight.

As a Major, Hugh had just returned from 7 days R&R in February 1945, to discover that his entire Company had been decimated. Of the three platoons who had joked with him just a few days before, a mere handful had survived the battle in the Reichswald. His loss was agony: from El Alamein to the D-Day landings and across Europe, he had marched, fought, lived and laughed with these men.   Now, the war was nearing its end. Reinforcements had been sent; the task of rapidly identifying strengths and weaknesses stared back at him in the influx of new and unknown faces.

Which of his new recruits could be tasked with going into the woods at night to look for a battalion, with whom radio contact had been lost?  He decided to ask his newly arrived Lieutenant – a Platoon Commander, to ascertain their position.

Excellent enemy snipers at very close range made everybody nervous and trigger-happy. Tension and vulnerability were all around and it was his Lieutenant’s first battle. He was astonished that Hugh had the courage to loom out of the night to ask him the question – he could have been shot by his own side.

Hugh, meanwhile, gauged the Platoon Commander’s reaction carefully, and noted the open terror, knowing that fear was the most destructive of enemies. He understood the pointlessness of issuing an order in these circumstances: he must identify another soldier.  Years in the theatre of war taught him:

1. Patience – boys become men: but not all arrive at the front line as men.

2. Tolerance – everyone has weaknesses, but most learn: some the hard way.

3. Watchfulness – prior to the critical situation, note reactions.

4.  Examine all possibilities, and refuse to be daunted.

5.  Value your troops, and they will value you.

6. Courage. like fear, can be infectious. If you want courageous followers, you must set the standard.

© Linda Jane McLean

LindaLinda worked in Renal Medicine and Intensive Care, before studying Orthopaedics and becoming a Ward Sister.

She became interested in empowerment while working with a severely disabled gentleman who displayed extraordinary courage and tenacity.

She studied Clinical Leadership at Glasgow University, and was a Consultant to Strathclyde Police.

Linda’s LINKEDIN PROFILE; her blog can be found HERE

 

My Favorites: Great Stuff I’ve Found Recently

My monthly      “Great Stuff”    routine includes posting links to great content I ran across, to encourage you check them out if they sound interesting. Enjoy! 

 

I came across some really profound stuff: about Nelson Mandela, an 18 years old on a career path less traveled, 35 pictures that proof that the world isn’t such a bad place, things every (wo)man should own, and Activating the Life Purpose That’s Right Under Your Nose – so turn off any distractions and enjoy!

 

Boyd Varty: What I learned from Nelson Mandela
Simply a “must see”:

Letter to an 18-year-old on the Career Path Less Traveled 
If you don’t want to be the typical Everyday Joe, in a 9-to-5 office job, don’t go the route that everybody else takes

35 pictures that proof that the world isn’t such a bad place
Everything is NOT terrible. 

Things every (wo)man should own
Clear, short, precise – typical Leo Babauta

Activating the Life Purpose That’s Right Under Your Nose 
“Our obligation is to give meaning to life, and in doing so to overcome the passive, indifferent life.” ~Elie Wiesel 

Smile, breathe, and go slowly!

Dieter Langenecker
Dieter

 

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The yardstick of success is not measured by fame and wealth;
it is measured by your level of understanding of
who you are, why you are here
and where are you going from here. (Tulshi Sen)

 

thinking

Today, some years ago:
Philosopher Socrates sentenced to death (399 A.D.), Galileo Galilei is born in Pisa, Italy (1564), and 2012 DA14, an asteroid with a 50m diameter, comes within 27,700km from Earth (2013); time – and comets – rush by.

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Great Stuff I’ve Found Recently

My monthly      “Great Stuff”    routine includes posting links to great content I ran across, to encourage you check them out if they sound interesting. Enjoy! 

New year, new great stuff – in a slightly different form: instead of fortnightly issues with 3 recommended links it will be one monthly issue with some 5 links from now on. And some new features. Get yourself a cup of coffee or tea, and let’s begin.

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
Some Big Ideas from Marcus Aurelius: the (Roman) Emperor – (Stoic) Philosopher and his classic book “Meditations.”

The Little Known Secret to Getting Things Done
I will not give it away, you will have to read it yourself 🙂

Living the Quiet Life
A pearl of wisdom

Stop Living in Fear
What fear does is it puts around you. It is because of fear that you build boundaries all the time. If you put boundaries and restrict the area of your life, you may be safe but the problem is you are safe even from life. You are protected from life itself
That is real protection! 

Use Your Wild Card 
“Life is not a matter of holding good cards, but of playing a poor hand well.” – Robert Louis Stevenson
Great article by Mick Ukleja from LeadershiptraQ

Smile, breathe, and go slowly!

Dieter Langenecker
Dieter

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The yardstick of success is not measured by fame and wealth;
it is measured by your level of understanding of
who you are, why you are here
and where are you going from here. (Tulshi Sen)

 

Today, some years ago:
General Maxentius drives out Western Roman emperor Constans (350 A.D.), Capt James Cook stumbles over Hawaiian Islands (1778), and Beatles 1st appear on Billboard Chart (I Want to Hold Your Hand-#35); time rushes by.

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Do the opposite this time around

There is a good chance you are not in the New Year’s goal setting mode anymore.

Hopefully.

A study I read claims that 96% of all goals we set for a new year are on the (permanent) back burner within 21 days.

We know that.

But have you ever given it a deeper thought why this happens? And what, if anything, can be done about it?

Paul Watzlawick, the late author of “The Situation Is Hopeless, But Not Serious: The Pursuit of Unhappiness” (and fellow Austrian) once said: “complex problems are best solved with simple solutions”.

And this is very true here as well: most New Year’s resolutions are about superficial or external goals, but not in sync with our deeper needs, and lack the inspiration and motivation needed for their implementation.

Because if – deep down – we ask ourselves: “Is this everything life has to offer, everyday the same routine? Isn’t there more to it than increasing profits or making more money?”,  stopping to smoke, eating more healthy, doing more sports is simply “cosmetical” only.

What is missing is the inner fire. When we were younger we had dreams, ambitions, hopes that we can do something great.

And I’m not saying that we should dig up the old dreams. “Great” probably means something different to you now. But there is still some “small great thing” inside us which would love to come to the surface – and which we have suppressed over the years because of the urgent demands of life.

We have not learned how to deal with life’s real questions in school. But now we have the experience, have suffered from the rollercoaster life sometimes is – and therefore know better, what is really important to us (and for others) in life.

Therefore it is easy, definitely easier than 10, 20 or 30 years ago.

And the first step is to ask yourself:

What is it that would give you real satisfaction, meaning and happiness in your life?

What is it you can do with your talents and experience to help someone else, to contribute to make the world a better place, to live a meaningful life?

And don’t allow your “little inner voice” to block you (again) when it says “forget it, this can’t be done, because ……..”.

Rather, finding an answer to this question will make everything else much easier.

Make this year count; make your life count.

 

Smile, breathe, and go slowly!

Dieter Langenecker
Dieter

 

PS: If you want to comment, ask a question or inquire how personal mentoring can help you to live a meaningful life visit www.langenecker.com/lifementoring.html

 

The yardstick of success is not measured by fame and wealth;
it is measured by your level of understanding of
who you are, why you are here
and where are you going from here. (Tulshi Sen)

 

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Great stuff I’ve found recently: The Most Popular In 2013

Less than a week until this year is over. Time to reflect and look forward! The best of “Great Stuff I Have Found”. Enjoy!

 

Happier                                                                                                                             “You are one hundred and ten years old. A time machine has just been invented, and you are selected as one of the first people to use it. The inventor, a scientist from NASA, tells you that you will be transported back to the day when, as it happens, you first read Happier. You, with the wisdom of having lived and experienced life, have fifteen minutes to spend with your younger and less experienced self. What do you say when you meet? What advice do you give yourself?” ~ Tal Ben-Shahar from Happier

Follow Your Bliss… 

 

Money Matters
…there is nothing right or wrong about money…It is just that if money does not stay in your pockets and goes into your head, misery will come.                                                     Money Matters

 

9 Qualities Of Truly Confident People                                                               Confidence is not bravado, or swagger, or an overt pretense of bravery. Confidence is not some bold or brash air of self-belief directed at others.                                               Confidence is quiet: It is a natural expression of ability, expertise, and self-regard.

How to Live Happily?
Addressing a group of students and faculty at the IIT campus in Chennai, India, Sadhguru answers a question on how to maintain joy and happiness regardless of the external circumstances.

 

What it Really Takes to Succeed

 

Steve Jobs explains the rules for success

 

Shawn Achor: The happy secret to better work
We believe that we should work to be happy, but could that be backwards? In this fast-moving and entertaining talk from TEDxBloomington, psychologist Shawn Achor argues that … well. see for yourself :-); another “must see”!

 

Pause                                                                                                                          Pausing allows you to take a beat – to take a breath in your life. As everybody else is rushing around like a lunatic out there, I dare you to do the opposite.                           Pause

 

Dr Wayne Dyer ~ “The Shift “
In a nutshell: must watch.

 

If you want to see another wonderful performance by Miyoko Shida watch this (make sure you stay until the end!!): 

 

To Know Yourself: Why It Matters

 

A Simple Change in Mindset Changes Everything
One of the best tricks I’ve learned to improve my likelihood of sticking to a habit is so simple it is sinful.

 

Another Steve Jobs gem 
Giving The Best Advice On Success And Failure: This YouTube video is making the rounds again and for good reason. It’s less than two minutes long and it encapsulates one of the best bits of advice Steve Jobs ever offered on how to succeed.

 

And, keep in mind:
“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their
dreams.” Eleanor Roosevelt

 

Smile, breathe, go slowly                                                                                                    and have a magnificent 2014!

  Dieter Langenecker

   Dieter Langenecker

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Great Last Minute Gift – For Someone You Care (Which Includes Yourself)

Not sure what gift to buy?

I’d like to recommend you this book:

The inspirational #1 Bestseller by John P. Strelecky. Now translated into twenty-one languages and read by more than a million readers worldwide. In a small cafe at a location so remote it sits in the middle of the middle of nowhere, John–a man in a hurry–is at a crossroads. Intent only on refueling before moving along on his road trip, he finds sustenance of an entirely different kind. In addition to the specials of the day, the cafe menu lists three questions all diners are encourage to consider.

Why are you here?

Do you fear death?

Are you fulfilled?

With this food for thought and the guidance of three people he meets at the cafe, John embarks on a journey of self-discovery that takes him from the executive suites of the advertising world to the surf of Hawaii’s coastline. Along the way he discovers a new way to look at life, himself, and just how much you can learn from a green sea turtle.

(Bonus tip: also might make a great gift for yourself)

Enjoy the festive season!

Dieter Langenecker
Dieter

 

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The yardstick of success is not measured by fame and wealth;
it is measured by your level of understanding of
who you are, why you are here
and where are you going from here. (Tulshi Sen)

 

xmas
And if you are based in the southern hemisphere:
xsh
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Great Stuff I’ve Found Recently

It is probably the most hectic time of the year (and the most commercialized one as well, for that matter). Slow down, you (most likely) move too fast. It is time to absorb some wisdom and put things in perspective. Enjoy!

 

The Material and the Spiritual                                                                                       How can you separate the material and the spiritual? What we need to change is not the content of our life.                                                                                                                We need to change the context of our life  

Working with the Obstacles in Your Path 
you should work with the obstacles instead of avoiding them – you learn from them.

 

A Simple Change in Mindset Changes Everything
One of the best tricks I’ve learned to improve my likelihood of sticking to a habit is so simple it is sinful.

 

Worst one ever
If you’re not willing to get your ‘worst one ever’ out of the way, how will you possibly do better than that?

 

 
Deepak Chopra: What is the Purpose of Life?
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Smile, breathe and go slowly.

  Dieter Langenecker

   Dieter Langenecker

From Existing to Meaningful Living
 
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