The Best

It’s halftime whistle for 2014. And as always at this time of the year – the most inspiring, profound and interesting articles, videos, quotes, etc. I’ve found this year so far. Enjoy!

The future of our civilization is based on prudence, critical self reflection, belief in higher values, and wisdom in matters of ordinary, everyday life. It is not about grabbing as much as possible, as quickly as possible.     — Tyler Cowen, Economist

 

Life Lessons by Dr.Suneel Sethi
As we move from winters to spring and from spring to summers, I sit down to memorise the life lessons learnt during all the seasons of my life passed, to be used in the present and future .A recollection of these lessons I share with you here will provide you with a platform to start the journey of self development and improvement with me and some great ideas to ponder about. As you read along the list of suggestions and my life lessons, I hope you, too, would be on fire with focus, passion and outright excellence. Here are some of the life lessons I learnt during the various seasons of my life.

 

One World: Arianna Huffington on Viewing Life with a Wider Lens
So often in modern society, we look at success as being defined narrowly as attaining money and power. Particularly in the business world, there is a tendency to forget that there should be other measures of success including health, well-being, empathy and morality. These are the things that make up the Third Metric and there is a move by many in the business world to ensure that more emphasis is places on these things. Arianna Huffington is one business leader who is speaking passionately about this move.

 

Attraction
Attraction are a Hungarian theatre group, with a unique act of creating pictures with shadows of their bodies. Hear we see them performing to the track “Read All About It” by Emeli Sande, in the first week of auditions of Britain’s Got Talent. A must watch!
Why can’t we do that?
The Orangutan and the Hound Dog
The Orangutan and the Hound Dog
 
Fear is the Root of Your Problems 

Every problem you or I have (and they are many, small and large), is rooted in fear. For some, that might seem obvious: the question is how to beat the fears. For others, it’s not so self-evident: why are my financial or relationship or procrastination problems caused by fear?  Let us tackle both questions – the Why and the How.

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Smile, breathe and go slowly!
Dieter Langenecker  
Dieter Langenecker
 
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My Favorites: Great Stuff I’ve Found Recently

My monthly “My Favorites”    routine includes posting links to great content I ran across, to encourage you to check them out if they sound interesting. Enjoy!

Greetings!

Today I want to present to you two relatively young and one very old concept of how to tackle today’s challenges:
 
Social entrepreneurship – the new heroes? 
Social entrepreneurship is the process of pursuing innovative solutions to social problems. More specifically, social entrepreneurs adopt a mission to create and sustain social value. They pursue opportunities to serve this mission, while continuously adapting and learning. They draw upon appropriate thinking in both the business and nonprofit worlds and operate in all kinds of organizations: large and small; new and old; religious and secular; nonprofit, for-profit, and hybrid.
Read more at:
and watch
Tim Kelley interviews Rich Tafel about Social Entrepreneurship
Sociocracy
Sociocracy is a system of governance, using consent-based decision making among equivalent individuals and an organizational structure based on cybernetic principles. The most recent implementation of sociocracy by Gerard Endenburg, also known as Circular Organizing, was developed as a new tool for governance of private enterprise, but has been adopted in many different kinds of organizations including public, private, non-profit and community organizations as well as professional associations.
Read more at

  

Vipassana

Far from some fluffy-pillowed-tropical-fruit-filled-yoga-on-the-beach type of retreat, the 10-day vipassana silent meditation retreat pushes you to your limits. It’s not a getaway or a vacation; instead, it’s an opportunity to work hard and reap the rewards of a clearer mind and higher levels of consciousness.

Read more at What I Learned From A Hardcore 10-Day Meditation Retreat

 

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Dieter Langenecker
Dieter

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Nothing to add

The future of our civilization is based on prudence, critical self reflection, belief in higher values, and wisdom in matters of ordinary, everyday life. It is not about grabbing as much as possible, as quickly as possible. — Tyler Cowen, Economist
Nothing to add.
Smile, breathe and go slowly!
Dieter Langenecker
Dieter Langenecker
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My Favorites: Great Stuff I’ve Found Recently

My monthly  “My Favorites”    routine includes posting links to great content I ran across, to encourage you to check them out if they sound interesting. Enjoy! 

Let’s start with a wonderful story on the  “Half empty or Half full?”question; it is such a great story so I have it here full length – and you don’t have to take a decision whether to click a link or not :-):

A Psychologist walked around a room while teaching Stress Management to an audience.
As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the “Half empty or Half full” question.
Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired:
“How heavy is this glass of water?”
Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.
She replied, “The absolute weight doesn’t matter.
It depends on how long I hold it.
If I hold it for a minute,
it’s not a problem.
If I hold it for an hour,
I’ll have an ache in my arm.
If I hold it for a day,
my arm will feel numb and paralyzed.
In each case,
the weight of the glass doesn’t change,
But
The longer I hold it,
the heavier it becomes.
She continued,
“The Stresses and Worries in Life , are like that Glass of Water…
Think about them for a while and nothing happens.
Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt.
And
If you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed –
incapable of doing anything….!!!”
Remember to put the Glass Down

 

 
My Advice for Starting a Business
Get started, my friends! You will love it.
  

Getting started, again

We started off the year with high hopes. We were going to find love! Start new jobs! Let go of old hurts! Now it’s time to do an evaluation.

Are you any closer? Do you have the sort of realistic conversations with yourself that are going to stop you from repeating the same old, same old? Or are you still back in 2013? Here are some ideas to help you get back on track.

  

How to be a time warrior

Choosing to be a time warrior gives you ways to leave linear modes of time management behind. It frees you up to enjoy going non-linear.

  

 

What Are You Hiding?

5 Actions for Creating Openness; by Mick Ukleja

 

 

Smile, breathe, and go slowly!

Dieter Langenecker
Dieter

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Redefining Success

You cannot have sustainable growth and sustainable success, if you don’t have a sustainable planet.

 

The general aspiration is the whole world wants to live like the United States of America. According to Living Earth statistics, if the whole world has to live like an average citizen in United States does, we need four-and-a-half planets. But we have only one. We have only one and we need four-and-a-half, if we want to succeed. So, somewhere we should pray for failure ? Which is not a good thing!

 

So we have to redefine what enterprise is, we have to redefine success; we have to redefine what we call moving forward. If we call moving backward as moving forward, we’re asking for trouble. So, yes, we want everybody to succeed. But it is also important, because we are hugely, hugely empowered like never before, no other generation has been as empowered as we are today. We have to redefine success.

 

Otherwise, we’ll pay a very high price if we succeed.

 

Your thoughts?

 

Smile, breathe, and go slowly!

Dieter Langenecker
Dieter

 

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The yardstick of success is not measured by fame and wealth;
it is measured by your level of understanding of
who you are, why you are here
and where are you going from here. (Tulshi Sen)

 

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Who’s helping you?

I spent today with my mastermind group .

Actually, it’s one of three mastermind groups I’m in.

I’m in one small group with a handful of other mentors that meets via skype every week to bounce around ideas and share experiences. We also meet up for a full day every now and then: this time to grill each other on our plans for next months to come.

I’m in another small group of professional speakers that meets face to face quarterly to help each other with the speaking side of our businesses.

And I’m in a big group of folks who do a lot of stuff online who meet virtually every month to discuss online strategies and to partner with each other on promotions if appropriate.

Each of those groups contributes something different to my business. Today’s session put my plan for 2014 through the wringer and helped me with priorities. Tomorrow I’ll be listening to a recording of the online group call I missed because I always get a lot of insight from hearing what’s working and what’s not for the other folks in the group.

And they all provide camaraderie and friendship too. Rather important for anyone.

Have you got something similar for your?

Three groups might be a bit over the top. But I promise you, a regular mastermind group will work wonders for you.

If you’re not part of one, why not set one up yourself? Google “mastermind group” to see how they work and speak to a handful of people who you think have complementary skills and experience to yours.

It could be the best thing you do for your in 2014.

Apart from joining Personal Mentoring, of course 😉

Smile, breathe, and go slowly!

Dieter Langenecker
Dieter

 

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The yardstick of success is not measured by fame and wealth;
it is measured by your level of understanding of
who you are, why you are here
and where are you going from here. (Tulshi Sen)

 

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HOW DID HE KNOW?

This is a guest post by my dear friend Linda Jane McLean. Enjoy!

THE POSTCARD

“I write my memoirs and remember the night in Feb. 45, when after a night skirmish, I was digging in when Hugh came to my position saying: ‘The Colonel has lost the battalion and wanted someone to go and look.’ I was frozen with fear; to go out in the dark woodlands seemed a certain equation to be shot at by both sides, as I put it. He was sensitive to my abject fear and said: “Jim White will do it.”

How did he know?

Lt. White was carried in later after stepping on a schu mine. No one said anything, but I was rather shamed.

A fine man.”

What is it about this piece that inspires you and helps sustain you as a leader?

These words seem few and inadequate to encapsulate what I understand about leadership, and which affect my practice to this day. I had only known the story from Hugh’s perspective, so this was an interesting insight.

As a Major, Hugh had just returned from 7 days R&R in February 1945, to discover that his entire Company had been decimated. Of the three platoons who had joked with him just a few days before, a mere handful had survived the battle in the Reichswald. His loss was agony: from El Alamein to the D-Day landings and across Europe, he had marched, fought, lived and laughed with these men.   Now, the war was nearing its end. Reinforcements had been sent; the task of rapidly identifying strengths and weaknesses stared back at him in the influx of new and unknown faces.

Which of his new recruits could be tasked with going into the woods at night to look for a battalion, with whom radio contact had been lost?  He decided to ask his newly arrived Lieutenant – a Platoon Commander, to ascertain their position.

Excellent enemy snipers at very close range made everybody nervous and trigger-happy. Tension and vulnerability were all around and it was his Lieutenant’s first battle. He was astonished that Hugh had the courage to loom out of the night to ask him the question – he could have been shot by his own side.

Hugh, meanwhile, gauged the Platoon Commander’s reaction carefully, and noted the open terror, knowing that fear was the most destructive of enemies. He understood the pointlessness of issuing an order in these circumstances: he must identify another soldier.  Years in the theatre of war taught him:

1. Patience – boys become men: but not all arrive at the front line as men.

2. Tolerance – everyone has weaknesses, but most learn: some the hard way.

3. Watchfulness – prior to the critical situation, note reactions.

4.  Examine all possibilities, and refuse to be daunted.

5.  Value your troops, and they will value you.

6. Courage. like fear, can be infectious. If you want courageous followers, you must set the standard.

© Linda Jane McLean

LindaLinda worked in Renal Medicine and Intensive Care, before studying Orthopaedics and becoming a Ward Sister.

She became interested in empowerment while working with a severely disabled gentleman who displayed extraordinary courage and tenacity.

She studied Clinical Leadership at Glasgow University, and was a Consultant to Strathclyde Police.

Linda’s LINKEDIN PROFILE; her blog can be found HERE